{"id":9628,"date":"2021-06-01T06:02:17","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T06:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/?p=9628"},"modified":"2021-06-01T06:02:17","modified_gmt":"2021-06-01T06:02:17","slug":"et-lolo-la","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/?p=9628","title":{"rendered":"Et Lolo, l\u00e0\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Comme nombre d\u2019autres objets, les cl\u00e9s sont anim\u00e9es d\u2019un esprit mal\u00e9fique, vous le savez. C\u2019est comme \u00e7a que celle de la voiture m\u2019a \u00e9chapp\u00e9 pour tomber dans une grille d\u2019\u00e9go\u00fbt heureusement \u00e0 sec. D\u00e9sempar\u00e9e, j\u2019ai regard\u00e9 la cl\u00e9, \u00e0 un m\u00e8tre de moi, inaccessible\u2026<\/strong>
\nLike many other items, the keys have an evil spirit, you know. That\u2019s how the one in the car slipped out of my way and fell into a fortunately dry sewer grate. Distraught, I looked at the key, a yard away from me, inaccessible …
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C\u2019\u00e9tait un dimanche, avec Paul on \u00e9tait encore en cavale \u00e0 l\u2019autre bout du pays, on ne connaissait personne dans le coin.<\/strong>
\nJ\u2019avais bien rep\u00e9r\u00e9 de l\u2019autre c\u00f4t\u00e9 de la rue une maison en chantier, mais tout \u00e9tait ferm\u00e9, clos, verrouill\u00e9, l\u2019outillage bien \u00e0 l\u2019abri \u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur.<\/strong>
\nIt was a Sunday, with Paul we were still on the run across the country, we didn’t know anyone around.<\/strong><\/span>
\nI had spotted a house under construction on the other side of the street, but everything was closed, fenced, locked, the tools well sheltered inside.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u2019est alors que la porte de cette maison-ci pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment s\u2019est ouverte, un homme est sorti. Je me suis pr\u00e9cipit\u00e9e\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0vous n\u2019auriez pas quelque chose comme, je sais pas, un bout de ferraille\u00a0\u00bb et d\u2019expliquer la cl\u00e9, tomb\u00e9e, qui se moquait de moi depuis son recoin hors d\u2019atteinte.<\/strong>
\nIt was then that the door to this very house opened, a man came out. I rushed over, \u00ab\u00a0you wouldn’t have something like, I don\u2019t know, a piece of junk\u00a0\u00bb and explained the fallen key that was laughing at me from its out of reach nook.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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L\u2019homme est retourn\u00e9 dans la maison, en a rapport\u00e9 un bout de ferraille d\u2019une longueur parfaite, repli\u00e9 en crochet au bout\u00a0! En deux secondes, j\u2019ai r\u00e9cup\u00e9r\u00e9 la cl\u00e9 et en rendant l\u2019outil \u00e0 mon bienfaiteur, je lui ai dit qu\u2019il \u00e9tait providentiel. <\/strong>
\nThe man went back into the house, brought back a piece of scrap metal of perfect length, folded up like a hook at the end! Within two seconds I retrieved the key and upon returning the tool to my benefactor told him he was providential.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Parfois, je pense \u00e0 Lolo comme \u00e0 la personne providentielle. Ne le lui r\u00e9p\u00e9tez pas, \u00e7a va le rendre orgueilleux. Et comme il lit r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement mon blog, je vais avoir du mal \u00e0 lui cacher le bien que nous pensons de lui. <\/strong>
\nSometimes I think of Lolo as the providential person. Do not repeat it to him, it will make him proud. And since he regularly reads my blog, I’m going to have a hard time hiding from him the good things we think of him.
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Mais apr\u00e8s tout, la relation d\u2019\u00e9changes qui s\u2019est \u00e9tablie avec lui, c\u2019est quelque chose de tout naturel, chacun fait ce qu\u2019il peut selon ses capacit\u00e9s, ses savoirs, ses pr\u00e9f\u00e9rences, et par gros temps tout le monde est sur le pont. Je dirais donc que nous avons \u00e9tabli avec Lolo des relations normales, comme tout le monde pourrait le faire avec tout le monde. Il me semble qu\u2019il y a un \u00e9quilibre et que tout le monde est satisfait, c\u2019est donc une bonne chose.<\/strong>
\nBut after all, the exchange relationship that has been established with him is something quite natural, everyone does what they can according to their abilities, their knowledge, their preferences, and in case of storm everyone is on the ship deck. So I would say that we have established a normal relationship with Lolo, as anyone could with everyone. It seems to me that there is a balance and that everyone is happy, so that’s a good thing.
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Depuis cette petite annonce dans \u00ab\u00a0l\u2019\u00c2ge de faire\u00a0\u00bb alors que je ne trouve jamais le temps de lire cette revue, jusqu\u2019aux amis que nous avons en commun, cela fait beaucoup de hasards \u2014 mais certains disent que le hasard n\u2019existe pas\u2026<\/strong>
\nFrom that little ad in \u00ab\u00a0l\u2019\u00c2ge de faire\u00a0\u00bb when I never find the time to read this review, to the friends we have in common, it’s been a lot of luck – but some say there is no such thing as luck \u2026
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Tout s\u2019est mis en place tranquillement, naturellement. Laurent souhaitait avoir son ind\u00e9pendance, nous aussi. Paul et moi avons une grande exp\u00e9rience des visiteurs, que ce soient par \u00ab\u00a0HelpX\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0Workaway\u00a0\u00bb ou encore le CouchSurfing, sans oublier l\u2019h\u00e9bergement de militants\u2026 Des motivations tr\u00e8s vari\u00e9es, des rencontres infiniment vari\u00e9es nous ont permis d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 lire au travers des comportements des gens pour mieux les conna\u00eetre. Un beau discours et des principes s\u00e9duisants sont parfois en contradiction avec les actions de la personne.<\/strong>
\nIt all fell into place quietly, naturally. Laurent wanted to have his independence, same for us. Paul and I have a great experience of visitors, whether through \u00ab\u00a0HelpX\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0Workaway\u00a0\u00bb or even CouchSurfing, without forgetting the accommodation of activists\u2026 Very varied motivations, infinitely varied encounters allowed us to learn how to read through people’s behavior to get to know them better. Beautiful speech and seductive principles are sometimes at odds with a person’s actions.
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Avec une existence tr\u00e8s diff\u00e9rente, Laurent a des points de vue qui s\u2019accordent vraiment bien avec les n\u00f4tres. Pour cohabiter, nous connaissions d\u00e9j\u00e0 les \u00e9cueils \u00e0 \u00e9viter. Par exemple, apprendre \u00e0 dire sinc\u00e8rement ce que l\u2019on pense, m\u00eame au risque d\u2019\u00eatre un peu d\u00e9sagr\u00e9able. Ne pas aller trop vite. Garder une porte de sortie.<\/strong>
\nWith a very different existence, Laurent has some points of view that mesh really well with ours. To live together, we already knew the pitfalls to avoid. For example, learning to say what you think sincerely, even at the risk of being a little obnoxious. Don’t go too fast. Keep a way out.
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Le premier long s\u00e9jour de Lolo, ce doit \u00eatre quand nous \u00e9tions en Italie, en septembre 2019, quand on ne parlait pas encore de pand\u00e9mie et qu\u2019on pouvait aller sans trop d\u2019embarras o\u00f9 on le voulait. Le premier confinement a bien compliqu\u00e9 les choses, mais depuis le mois de juillet dernier, Lolo a fait son trou ici.<\/strong>
\nLolo’s first long stay must have been when we were in Italy, in September 2019, when there was no talk of a pandemic yet and we could go where we wanted without too much embarrassment. The first confinement complicated things, but since last July, Lolo has made his way here.
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Il nous avait pr\u00e9venus\u00a0: en hiver, il est tout le temps malade. Oh, il a bien eu deux ou trois coups de pompe pendant l\u2019hiver, mais rien de bien m\u00e9chant, il s\u2019est soign\u00e9 en partant marcher quelques kilom\u00e8tres. Il a affront\u00e9 sans probl\u00e8me grave la grisaille hivernale.<\/strong>
\nHe warned us: in winter, he is sick all the time. Oh, he felt knackered a couple of times during the winter, but nothing too bad, he healed himself by going for a walk for a few miles. He faced the winter gray without serious problem.
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On a vite pris nos petites habitudes\u00a0: quand c\u2019est de l\u2019\u00e9lectricit\u00e9, on lui demande. Quand c\u2019est un peu trop lourd pour nous, on lui demande. Quand j\u2019avais le bras en \u00e9charpe, il s\u2019est occup\u00e9 de tailler la haie, travail que j\u2019avais pr\u00e9vu de faire avec Paul. Il y a le jour de lessive et celui o\u00f9 il va \u00e0 la m\u00e9diath\u00e8que. En v\u00e9lo, par tous les temps. Pour nous, c\u2019est plut\u00f4t la m\u00e9t\u00e9o qui d\u00e9termine les travaux au jardin, on s\u2019adapte petit \u00e0 petit \u00e0 d\u2019autres fa\u00e7ons de faire.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong>
\nWe quickly picked up our little habits: when it comes to electricity, we ask him. When it’s a little too heavy for us, we ask him. When my arm was in a sling, he took care of trimming the hedge, a job I had planned to do with Paul. There’s laundry day and the day he goes to the media library. By bike, whatever the weather. For us, it is rather the weather that determines the work in the garden, we are gradually adapting to other ways of doing things.
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Plus compliqu\u00e9\u00a0: il est all\u00e9 jusqu\u2019\u00e0 Bourgoin en v\u00e9lo, par une route o\u00f9 le trafic est dense, moi je ne vois pas l\u2019int\u00e9r\u00eat d\u2019un trajet p\u00e9nible, sans attrait, un peu dangereux. Pour lui le v\u00e9lo est utile, pour Paul le v\u00e9lo est un loisir et rien de plus. Pour moi, les deux sont valables.<\/strong>
\nMore complicated: he went to Bourgoin by bike, on a road where traffic is dense, I don’t see the point of a strenuous, unattractive, a little dangerous journey. For him cycling is useful, for Paul cycling is a hobby and nothing more. For me, both are valid.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Nous faisons quelques balades quand Nanath est l\u00e0 le week-end. Ou encore nous nous retrouvons au jardin o\u00f9 elle d\u00e9sherbe inlassablement les massifs de fleurs. Nous avons un rituel, regarder Karambolage le dimanche soir, juste nous quatre, et si S\u00e9b ou J\u00e9r\u00f4me sont l\u00e0, eux aussi suivent l\u2019\u00e9mission – mal\u00e9diction\u00a0! Pas de Karambolage dimanche prochain\u00a0! Nous nous invitons pour prendre un repas, chez nous, chez Lolo. Quand Paul cuisine, il partage parfois sa pr\u00e9paration.<\/strong>
\nWe do a few walks when Nanath is there on weekends. Or we meet in the garden where she tirelessly weeds the flower beds. We have a ritual, watching Karambolage on Sunday night, just the four of us, and if S\u00e9b or Jerome are there, they too are watching the show – curse! No Karambolage next Sunday! We invite each other to have a meal, at our place, at Lolo’s. When Paul cooks, he sometimes shares his preparation.
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Tout cela semble tellement simple\u00a0! Pourtant Laurent est revenu un peu d\u00e9\u00e7u d\u2019une visite qu\u2019il a faite\u00a0: un groupe a rachet\u00e9 un immense ch\u00e2teau et du terrain, pour r\u00e9aliser un projet d\u2019habitat partag\u00e9. Ces personnes sont rompues \u00e0 la Communication Non Violente. D\u2019apr\u00e8s ce qu\u2019il nous a racont\u00e9, j\u2019ai l\u2019impression que ce projet n\u2019a pas d\u2019\u00e2me. <\/strong>
\nIt all sounds so simple! Yet Laurent came back a little disappointed from a visit he made: a group bought a huge castle and land, to carry out a shared housing project. These people are well versed in Non-Violent Communication. From what he told us, I don’t think this project has a soul.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

De son c\u00f4t\u00e9, Nanath est en communication avec son groupe pour la construction de son futur logement en habitat partag\u00e9\u00a0: elle nous en parle avec enthousiasme et il nous semble que ce projet-l\u00e0 a plus de chance de bien se d\u00e9rouler que celui de ce fameux ch\u00e2teau.<\/strong>
\nFor her part, Nanath is in communication with her group for the construction of her future housing in shared housing: she talks about it with enthusiasm and it seems to us that this project has a better chance of going well than that of this famous castle.
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Il n\u2019y a pas que Laurent\u00a0: quand il fait beau, on croise Jean-Pierre qui est all\u00e9 chercher une salade au jardin, ou Cosette, pour la m\u00eame raison. Lolo va dans l\u2019atelier couper un bout de bois, m\u00eame Jean-Paul passe parfois, et on se retrouve parfois \u00e0 cinq, six ou plus, tout excit\u00e9s d\u2019\u00eatre l\u00e0, tout contents de se rencontrer.<\/strong>
\nIt’s not just Laurent: when the weather is nice, we meet Jean-Pierre who has gone to get a salad in the garden, or Cosette, for the same reason. Lolo goes to the workshop to cut a piece of wood, even Jean-Paul sometimes comes by, and sometimes we end up with five, six or more, all excited to be there, all happy to meet.
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Depuis quelques jours, Lolo est lanc\u00e9 dans de grands pr\u00e9paratifs\u00a0: marcher sur le chemin de Stevenson. Il am\u00e9liore le chariot de randonn\u00e9e qu\u2019il a bricol\u00e9, avec une seule roue pour passer m\u00eame sur les mauvais chemins. Mais il faut pouvoir le plier pour monter dans le train. Avec cet engin, pas de sac \u00e0 dos trop lourd\u2026 <\/strong>
\nFor a few days now, Lolo has been making great preparations: walking on Stevenson’s path. He improves on the backpacking cart he tinkered with, with just one wheel to get through even on bad roads. But you have to be able to fold it to get on the train. With this machine, no backpack too heavy …
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\nIl a l\u2019habitude de dormir sur un matelas de randonn\u00e9e, mais pourquoi ne pas essayer le hamac\u00a0?<\/strong>
\nHe’s used to sleeping on a hiking mattress, but why not give the hammock a try?
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Il monte, d\u00e9monte, v\u00e9rifie, am\u00e9liore, essaie \u00e0 nouveau. Il part une paire d\u2019heure afin de voir comment se comporte le chariot.<\/strong>
\nHe assembles, disassembles, checks, improves, tries again. He leaves for a couple of hours to see how the cart behaves.
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Pendant une bonne partie du mois de juin, Lolo sera en exp\u00e9dition et nous lui souhaitons que tout se passe au mieux. Nanath viendra le week-end. <\/strong>
\nFor a good part of June, Lolo will be on an expedition and we wish him all the best. Nanath will be coming over the weekend.
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Mais avant cela, nous, nous nous d\u00e9p\u00eachons de partir, pas longtemps, pas loin, et je vous raconterai \u00e7a\u2026 Bient\u00f4t\u2026<\/strong>
\nBut before that, we, we hurry to leave, not long, not far, and I will tell you that … Soon …<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Comme nombre d\u2019autres objets, les cl\u00e9s sont anim\u00e9es d\u2019un esprit mal\u00e9fique, vous le savez. C\u2019est comme \u00e7a que celle de la voiture m\u2019a \u00e9chapp\u00e9 pour tomber dans une grille d\u2019\u00e9go\u00fbt heureusement \u00e0 sec. D\u00e9sempar\u00e9e, j\u2019ai regard\u00e9 la cl\u00e9, \u00e0 un … Continuer la lecture →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9628","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-non-classe"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9628"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9628"}],"version-history":[{"count":28,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9628\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9692,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9628\/revisions\/9692"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9628"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9628"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9628"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}