{"id":14165,"date":"2023-11-26T08:37:14","date_gmt":"2023-11-26T08:37:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/?p=14165"},"modified":"2023-11-26T08:37:14","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T08:37:14","slug":"hopital-et-marche-a-pied","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pasassezdetemps.com\/?p=14165","title":{"rendered":"H\u00f4pital et marche \u00e0 pied"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Une douzaine d\u2019heures apr\u00e8s cette balade, Paul sera hospitalis\u00e9
A dozen hours after this walk, Paul will be hospitalized<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n

Je vais \u00e0 l\u2019h\u00f4pital \u00e0 pied\u00a0: je l\u2019ai d\u00e9j\u00e0 fait deux fois, quatre kilom\u00e8tres, \u00e7a fait du bien. Je quitte mon squat, avec, la premi\u00e8re fois, une feuille sur laquelle j\u2019ai d\u00e9calqu\u00e9 un plan rudimentaire sur l\u2019\u00e9cran de l\u2019ordinateur. Je n\u2019ai toujours pas de smartphone, la vie est bien plus aventureuse comme \u00e7a\u00a0! <\/strong>
I go walking to the hospital: I’ve already done it twice, four kilometers, it feels good. I leave my squat, with, for the first time, a sheet of paper on which I have traced a rudimentary plan on the computer screen. I still don\u2019t have a smartphone, life is much more adventurous that way!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Je marche le long du tram sur l\u2019avenue Berthelot, puis sur le boulevard Jean XXIII. Si je me sentais trop fatigu\u00e9e, je n\u2019aurai qu\u2019\u00e0 monter dans la premi\u00e8re rame qui passera \u00e0 port\u00e9e\u2026 Mais tout va bien, marcher est tr\u00e8s agr\u00e9able.<\/strong>
Arriv\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019immense carrefour de Granges Blanches (l\u2019h\u00f4pital \u00c9douart Herriot, apr\u00e8s avoir d\u00e9pass\u00e9 le Centre L\u00e9on B\u00e9rard, centre de lutte contre le cancer, \u00e7a y est, me voici dans le quartier d\u2019innombrables h\u00f4pitaux), la difficult\u00e9 est de trouver la rue Trarieux. Mon plan peu d\u00e9taill\u00e9 ne me pr\u00e9cise pas que je dois la rejoindre via la rue du professeur Florence, mais j\u2019ai bien not\u00e9 que je dois continuer pratiquement tout droit dans le prolongement du boulevard. Je la rejoins sans difficult\u00e9.<\/strong>
I walk along the tram on Avenue Berthelot, then on Boulevard Jean XXIII. If I felt too tired, I would just have to get on the first train that comes within reach… But everything is fine, walking is very pleasant.<\/span><\/strong>
Arriving at the huge crossroads of Granges Blanches (the \u00c9douart Herriot hospital, after having passed the Center L\u00e9on B\u00e9rard, center for the fight against cancer, that’s it, here I am in the district of countless hospitals), the difficulty is to find rue Trarieux. My sketchy plan does not tell me that I have to reach it via rue du Professor Florence, but I have noted that I have to continue almost straight along the extension of the boulevard. I join it without difficulty.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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La rue Trarieux se termine par une mont\u00e9e un peu raide, mais j\u2019ai tout mon temps\u00a0: un matin, \u00e0 huit heures et demie, un m\u00e9decin p\u00e8te-sec m\u2019a signifi\u00e9 que les visites, c\u2019est \u00e0 partir de midi, c\u2019est non n\u00e9gociable. Dommage pour Paul, mais j\u2019y vois maintenant un avantage, j\u2019ai plus de temps pour me pr\u00e9parer\u2026 Et je prends le temps de marcher\u2026<\/strong>
Apr\u00e8s avoir travers\u00e9 un quartier tranquille, la rue Trarieux se jette dans le boulevard Pinel comme un affluent dans le fleuve.<\/strong>
Rue Trarieux ends with a somewhat steep climb, but I have plenty of time: one morning, at half-past eight, a petty doctor told me that visits are from noon, it is non-negotiable. Too bad for Paul, but I now see an advantage, I have more time to prepare… And I take the time to walk…<\/span><\/strong>
After passing through a quiet neighborhood, Rue Trarieux flows into Boulevard Pinel like a tributary to the river.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Une photo de Bernadette, lors de sa visite pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente. Plus tard, nous avons identifi\u00e9 la belle plante qui s\u2019est mise \u00e0 pousser \u00e0 une vitesse incroyable\u00a0: un paulownia\u00a0!
A photo of Bernadette, during her previous visit. Later, we identified the beautiful plant that began to grow incredibly quickly: a paulownia!<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n

Je vois bient\u00f4t ma destination, le b\u00e2timent neurologique. Je passe devant la rue o\u00f9 j\u2019ai gar\u00e9 la voiture, gratuitement. Ici, le parking d\u2019h\u00f4pital co\u00fbte tr\u00e8s cher mais l\u2019argent ne va ni \u00e0 l\u2019h\u00f4pital ni au personnel, alors j\u2019\u00e9vite d\u2019enrichir Vinci ou son \u00e9quivalent.<\/strong>
Je vous dois une explication\u00a0: le plus souvent je dors une nuit sur deux \u00e0 Lyon, une nuit sur deux chez nous, pour \u00e9viter les d\u00e9placements. Mais il me faut passer \u00e0 la maison, ne pas la d\u00e9serter, continuer \u00e0 l\u2019habiter.<\/strong>
Lolo a rentr\u00e9 les plantes qui craignent le gel, \u00e0 moi de les arroser. Je pourrais demander \u00e0 Lolo de le faire, bien s\u00fbr, mais il me faut continuer \u00e0 laisser mon empreinte ici, \u00e0 y habiter dans ce contexte diff\u00e9rent, sans Paul.<\/strong>
I soon see my destination, the neurological building. I pass in front of the street where I parked the car, for free. Here, hospital parking is very expensive but the money goes neither to the hospital nor to the staff, so I avoid enriching Vinci or its equivalent.<\/span><\/strong>
I owe you an explanation: most often I sleeps every other night in Lyon, every other night at home, to avoid traveling. But I must go home, not desert it, continue to live there.<\/span><\/strong>
Lolo brought in the plants that fear frost, it’s up to me to water them. I could ask Lolo to do it, of course, but I have to continue to leave my mark here, to live there in this different context, without Paul.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

Et un dessin post\u00e9 par Bernadette !<\/strong>
And a drawing posted by Bernadette!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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This antidepressant works best
if you take it with a glass of water,
on a hammock, in the West Indies.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Non, je n\u2019oublie pas de vous parler de Paul (qui va mieux, qui va mieux, qui va mieux) mais je dois prendre soin de moi, et voil\u00e0 pourquoi je tente cette page de \u00ab\u00a0litt\u00e9rature\u00a0\u00bb sans pr\u00e9tention.<\/strong>
J\u2019ai besoin d\u2019\u00e9crire, de mettre des mots bien agenc\u00e9s, de les choisir, de les placer au bon endroit. Les mots me ressourcent. <\/strong>
No, I don’t forget to tell you about Paul (who’s better, who’s better, who’s better) but I have to take care of myself, and that’s why I’m trying this page of unpretentious \u00ab\u00a0literature\u00a0\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong>
I need to write, to put words well arranged, to choose them, to place them in the right place. Words recharge my batteries.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Quand je vais \u00e0 l\u2019h\u00f4pital en voiture, je suis charg\u00e9e comme une mule !
When I go to the hospital by car, I’m loaded like a mule!<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n

Annabelle enseigne le yoga. Elle est venue avec Arnaud pour une visite, Paul \u00e9tait fatigu\u00e9, il dort mal, il ne r\u00eave plus que de partir ailleurs\u2026<\/strong>
Elle s\u2019est mise \u00e0 lui parler tout doucement, et ses mots, rien que ses mots, ont eu un effet extraordinaire : nous avons vu Paul se d\u00e9tendre, retrouver sa s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9, une respiration lente et confortable.<\/strong>
Plus tard, elle a envoy\u00e9 un enregistrement vocal qu\u2019elle a fait pour Paul, une s\u00e9ance de relaxation qui a le m\u00eame effet – bon, elle est en arr\u00eat \u00e0 cause d\u2019un pied cass\u00e9, alors elle a le temps dit-elle.<\/strong>
Annabelle teaches yoga. She came with Arnaud for a visit, Paul was tired, he doesn’t sleep well, he only dreams of going somewhere else…<\/span><\/strong>
She began to speak to him very gently, and her words, just her words, had an extraordinary effect: we saw Paul relax, regain his serenity, breathing slowly and comfortably.<\/span><\/strong>
Later, she sent a voice recording she made for Paul, a relaxation session that has the same effect – well, she’s off work with a broken foot, so she has time, she says.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Des Annabelle, il y en a tant autour de nous\u00a0! Des gens g\u00e9n\u00e9reux sur lesquels on peut s\u2019appuyer. Je les remercie tous ici, encore une fois, je n\u2019aurai jamais fini de les remercier.<\/strong>
There are so many Annabelles around us! Generous people you can rely on. I thank them all here, once again, I will never finish thanking them.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Un soir, au moment de partir de l\u2019h\u00f4pital, je re\u00e7ois un appel de Aude dont la fille a peut-\u00eatre le covid. Hors de question d\u2019aller dormir chez elle dans ces conditions\u00a0! Le temps d\u2019arriver \u00e0 l\u2019arr\u00eat de tram (le soir, pas envie de marcher) S\u00e9b m\u2019a trouv\u00e9 une solution de remplacement\u00a0: je vais chez \u00c9lisabetta, plus loin \u00e0 Villeurbanne, et \u00e7a me prend un moment. Mais je suis re\u00e7ue comme une princesse – je n\u2019oublierai jamais le risotto aux champignons et le pav\u00e9 de saumon\u00a0! – et je passe une soir\u00e9e d\u2019autant plus plaisante qu\u2019elle a \u00e9t\u00e9 improvis\u00e9e.<\/strong>
One evening, as I was leaving the hospital, I received a call from Aude whose daughter may have covid. There is no question of going to sleep at her house in these conditions! By the time I got to the tram stop (in the evening, I don’t want to walk) S\u00e9b found me an alternative solution: I went to \u00c9lisabetta’s, further away in Villeurbanne, and it took me a while. But I was received like a princess – I will never forget the mushroom risotto and the salmon steak! – and I have an evening that is all the more pleasant because it was improvised.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Test n\u00e9gatif, je peux retourner chez Aude\u00a0!<\/strong>
Negative test, I can return to Aude!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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On se sent devenir fous, Paul et moi, quand, par exemple, on demande le bassin, et qu\u2019il se passe vingt minutes avant de l\u2019obtenir. C\u2019est le moment de \u00ab\u00a0la rel\u00e8ve\u00a0\u00bb, occasion de vives discussions et de grands \u00e9clats de rire qui arrivent jusqu\u2019\u00e0 nous, puis des \u00ab\u00a0au revoir\u00a0\u00bb qui n\u2019en finissent pas\u00a0: le staff a besoin de ces moments pour d\u00e9compresser, les conditions de travail sont trop dures. <\/strong>
We feel like we’re going crazy, Paul and I, when, for example, we ask for the bedpan, and it takes twenty minutes before we get it. It’s the moment of \u00ab\u00a0handover\u00a0\u00bb, occasion for lively discussions and great bursts of laughter that reach us, then \u00ab\u00a0goodbyes\u00a0\u00bb which never end: the staff needs these moments to decompress , the working conditions are too harsh.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Alors on a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de demander l\u2019hospitalisation \u00e0 domicile\u00a0: un lit de libre pour l\u2019h\u00f4pital, et pour moi la fin des trajets longuement pr\u00e9par\u00e9s – j\u2019apporte quoi, v\u00eatements, nourriture\u2026? Les infirmi\u00e8res \u00e0 qui nous en avons parl\u00e9 samedi nous ont \u00e9cout\u00e9s avec attention, pas d\u00e9favorables au projet. Lundi, la question sera d\u00e9battue par les m\u00e9decins.<\/strong>
So we decided to request hospitalization at home: a free bed for the hospital, and for me the end of long-prepared journeys – what should I bring, clothes, food…? The nurses to whom we spoke about it on Saturday listened to us attentively, and were not unfavorable to the project. On Monday, the question will be debated by doctors.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Comment expliquer les progr\u00e8s de Paul\u00a0? J\u2019ai r\u00e9ussi moi-m\u00eame \u00e0 le faire passer du fauteuil au lit, ce qui lui demande de se tenir debout un instant. Quand il retrouve une commande, toute la force est l\u00e0. L\u2019orthophoniste ne viendra plus, Paul parle comme avant.<\/strong>
How can we explain Paul\u2019s progress? I myself managed to get him from the chair to the bed, which requires him to stand up for a moment. When he finds a command, all the strength is there. The speech therapist will no longer come, Paul speaks as before.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Bernadette, encore !
One fool can hide another<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n

Mais le tapage nocturne in\u00e9vitable, les attentes interminables malgr\u00e9 la bonne volont\u00e9 de tous, c\u2019est \u00e9puisant. On attend la suite avec une impatience f\u00e9brile. L\u2019aventure de Paul ne fait que commencer, \u00e0 nous d\u2019\u00e9crire une belle page\u2026<\/strong>
But the inevitable nighttime noise, the endless waits despite everyone’s good will, it’s exhausting. We await what follows with feverish impatience. Paul’s adventure has only just begun, it’s up to us to write a beautiful page…<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Minute stop limited to one hour<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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